Thursday, October 23, 2008
Ok people, I'm blogging again! Less than 16 hours from this post, I'll already be in army. Haiya. Think also sian lo. but anyway, yesterday i somehow managed to retrieve my old blogs, then read then and keep laughing, and end up read till 6am then go sleep and end up cant sleep cos think bout the wonderful past. lol. But anyway, you guys remember when i was like 14-15, i wrote a blog delicated to all u guys? yeah I gonna post that here and add up some stuff.
Since NS die 5 ppl this year, maybe i go in be the 6th i also duno. so im gonna write this thank you speech, if i die, it will be my thank you speech. at least i become ghost bear i still can happy thinking that i have thanked my friends. TMD better than i suddenly die then i need to talk to u all thru your dreams then u all wake up thinking its fake and i have to go in again, slap u and say its effin real. Or maybe, to talk to u in dreams, i have to be a high level ghost, need train be higher level first, and then need alot of mana. Or in real life term, it means i need to get permit from chuck norris.
Enough of bullshits, i'll be posting up what i posted few years back, and yes, u are are still my friends even after so long. lol. the italic paragraph is what i juz added in. And yup, i've included my newer friends too. HAVE A LOOK!
oh and sorry bout typo, need to type in a rush so wont borther bout editing those.
Yup, got a couple of songs up to suit the atmosphere. Play the songs while reading. [:
Best Friends
HUANG WEI MING
yo wei ming... we know each other since primary 3 le... till now we still were the best of friends :).. well.. i still remember the old times we had together you know? remember that time when i was living at my old house there... then your hse was quite far from mine.. then i go your house must walk quite long... then we always go each other hse de.. then everytime go your house play game... i still remember when we primary 5 that time.. we called samuel they all then play all childish games... games like ... we act as some kinda heros then 1 person be evil guy... then gotta kill him LOL... wahaha... then still have kum lan 2... we create all stupid stupid things... lol... then you everytime i wanna use your comp you wont let me play... until i beg like siao then you give -.-''.. wahaha now nvm le.. i have own comp.. even better de :P... wahaha... still remember when we pri 5 that time... everytime before sch.. i go your hse copy your hw.. lol.. then yan ping... samuel... they all would come.. wahha..thrn chen wee... lol always kana bully by us... lock him outside... then he wanna come in.. then became siao gao throw shoes inside your hse... LOL... just so funny... then we at there keep on laughing..then he siao siao go home... wahaha we so bad :P... then now... we have the socer le... it started with we playing blindcat.... remember? that time... we were playing with cheeleng.. yan ping... chen wee... me... you... samuel.. then sometimes that salivar king :)... then we keep on telling ppl to come.. then change blindcat to BOOM!!! then you remember... we sabo yan ping to be catcher then he not happy then go home... then since then.. he dont wanna play with us le... tmd... then we call more ppl join and play..... then donno why.. change to badmiton le... the i that time dont really know how to play.. you all bully me sia...tmd.. nvm.. at least i have improve when playing... then hor.. we change back to BOOM.. then sec 1... me and sam call our sec 2 friends... nan shun etc etc... then later on.. vincent and eric.. then we always play until 10.. then go home... after that.. 10 30... then 11... then 11 30... now leh.. siao liao... about 12 30AM to 1 Am then go home... we always stay and chat chat chat... just so rox... then we talk about everything.. about the game we play... the things we do... counterstrike... war craft... wahaha... then still discuss about stranegy... lol... just rox!.. then ... i everytime would go and see the moon de... then you would accoumpany me..thanks for everythine leh... then when im sad and down.. you would always console me... then your face so innocent..... so.. guilty-free... then when i look at your face.. i would have some kind of feeling that you were there supporting me... thanks for everything... you rox!! hope our friendship can last FOREVER!!! ohyea... and thanks for those lots of times of the drinks you offered me!! woo you are great buddy!! oh.. and your soccer skilles have improved alot!!! keep it up!!! belive in yourself!! and remember... we are the red guards lol :)
EH PUK QU LA WM. tian yuan i write yours so long le u still expect i will wite more? actually yes la i will lol. YOU AH! WALAO NOW GO GYM BUY CLOTHES AND WAN MAKE FACE HOR. walao love changed you. lol. but anyway, thanks for teaching me piano ah. teach until now my piano skills better than yours. PWNED. lol. aiya, got alot to say but duno what to say leh. jia you for your FYP hor, next year your turn go in botak le lol.
SAMUEL CHONG YONG DE
yoyoyo!!! sammy chong!! woo... me.. you and wei ming... we three the 3 elites sia.... know each other since primary 3... but then that time we not that close... we became close when we were primary 5 after our daily routin of going wm home... lol... then we always play games together... play like siao... then we that time kids ma.. so nvm la.. play kiddo things also nvm.. cause we still kiddos ma... then play play play... wahaha... shoik leh... then invent things... then all tag then bully chen wee... wahaha ... cant blame la.. his face have 2 words qianbian!! wahaha... then who ask hinm to always act cute then voice like gal like that... yea... and then we also play boom etc together de... then badmiton... tmd.. you play so good.. i still noob .... tmd... nvm la... my face that time nerd nerd de... then like very easy to bully de hor??? -.- hmm nvm la.. who ask you is my best friend :) yea.. then you create the bu hao siao gang... wahaha you is leader leh... siao siao... but you dont wanna be.. so now is replublic of bu hao siao :P... wahaha... not bad... we start with 14 ppl.. then expand expand expand... woo!! oh yea... we also after the soccer training we would stay at the play grund there... then relax.. then have cool breeze... woo!! then can see the moon also :).. thanks for helping my out when im in trouble... really thanks alot... you rox toO!! woo!! okay la... last year.. exam we tied leh... both got rank 15... lol then no rank 16... lol... nvm.. this time i gonna win you!! you just watch out :P... wahaha you have tution teacher so wad... i have my brains... and my confidence.. wahha i can win you de!!! you just see :) okay... say till here le ba.. cya... bye!! haha... and your soccer not bad also... try to belive in yourself more and have self-motivation!!! okay end here... tata cya!!
WTF? i cant believe i said those stuff. your badmiton better than me? SINCE WHEN? WTF??? i muz have been drunk or something when i wrote what i wrote last time lol. but thanks for organising the supper thingy yesterday, appreciated that.
YeO WeN QiN
yoyo.. wow... know you since sec 1 till now.. lol when i first saw you hor.. thought you is like gangster like that leh... then i dont really talk to you.. cause you like always wanna get trouble de... tmd... then hor... slowly we get along well... then i realise that i see a wrong him... he int gangster... a SIAO GAO!!! lol jkjk...not bad la... at first we only like normal friends like that only... then.. we call you to play with us the boom and since then our friendship bond deepens :)
well... you always tell me about christian thingy de... thou i dont really understand.. but ok la.. can understand some.. well.. since you became christian... you become a better person le... nice job.. :) then you always go with wei ming go play warcraft and counterstrike... dont play so much la... try to save more money then can buy things you want ma.. now the economy not good.. so must cut down on your lan le.. well.. i know some ppl always bully you la.. say you is wei ming dog etc... dont care them la.. be what you want :).. and thanks for being with me and see the moon together... thanks alot... and thanks for everytime when i need someone to accumpany me.. you would always be there... really thanks :) well.. your character actually is quite good de la... i sure wei ming also see this within you... thats why he also so close to you... well.. some ppl still think you still a kid... so you must prove to them you have grow up le... remember... when you do a bad deed, that would remain in other ppl heart forever... and the only way to remove it is by doing more good deeds... do at least 5 to cover up for that 1 and another 5 to show them you are good... just do this and you would be will respected by all :) okay la.. i'll stop here le... bao zhong !! oh yea... your soccer skills.... siao siao... the best sia... can do those things so good... i so jealous... and remember... we are the red guards :)
Bu Hao Siao - haha .. dont play play leh.. this gang have 19 members le.. and now still slowly recruiting ppl to join this lame gang.. well... bhs.. thanks alot... thats for all your help.. you made me feel like i have lots of friends around me ... really thanks :)
DAH! too bad we got to lay off most of them and leave only the 7 of us. lol. but still, perfect childhood memories! too bad now we all diff sch and all, den dont get to hang out that much le. but still, can all of us gather once or twice a month still ok la. but aiya, next those those chalets i duno my ns time slot can allow ma lo.
Joel Sng
Hey dude! ur not n my first list cos back then ur stll not in bhs yet. lol. but really wanna thank you for acc me go hosptal when my jaws cant close thanks to bloody dentist. althou partly is wan to skp lesson la, but still. lol. Ur known as the frendster king. u know what we mean ba lol. Take care a hor, when i come out of NS is your turn go in le. muahaha.
Eric khoo
yoyo!! hmm.. know you since sec 1 too.. tmd.. you this joker... everytime joke joke joke.. like siao gao like that... then everytime say me siao gao -.-... hmm nvm la.. i dont really care.. just dont overdo it... well.. your soccer is great... can shoot very far... wonder on your accuracy? hmm... and how bout your toliet shotting skills? lol :P... hmm....this guy is good la.. quite delicated to the gal he love also... hmm just belive in yourself la... you made a mistake of not cherishing her enough when you were her stead... now its not too late to make changes... prove to her that you care... prove to her that she would not regret being with you again... just suceed in this and her heart is half of yours... the other half can only be achived when you is willing to give up everything just for her... and make sure you mean it!! the rest... you can just find out wad she like then go buy for her la... then all that remains was for her to realise your true worth :)... till you make your mark... hang on buddy!! cya!!
walao u recently go where? we go buy stuff u nv come, we go watch movie u never come, yesterday the last supper u never fucking come! WTF? fuck u la eric lol. this sunday i come out cos public holiday they celebrating lol, u better come hor. anyway, MUAHAHAHA see the girl i wrote bout last time, so damn funny la. now ur still effing emo la -.-
Vincent Chew Wei Liang
yo!! vincent ...hmm.. know you since sec 1 also..quite a nice guy... soccer best goal keeper....but he change to midfiled le :( well.. our defence gonna sucks without you.... hmm nvm la... have dave and other pro defenders.... should have no problem de la... the problem is... my defence lan leh... how? hmm k la.. change topic.... hmm.. so hoes your lou han in your home? tmd... so many at home... like lou han shop like that... even in toliet also have -.-'' .... hmm.. you bhs soccer team captain leh... dont siao siao....then ncc future USM lol... unit shortest man... well.. just kick asari aside can le.. lol.. well... congras on being able to win jemaine heart... wish you two last forever :)... well.. and thanks for cheering me up whenever im down... will end here... cya!!
Benjamin Yap
yoyoz!! know you when i sec 2 in june that time right? haha... you pro leh... a comp pro... everytime when my computer is spoil you will come to my rescue!! thanks alot for that! :) and your character quite good also... an indoor person... you should participate more in sports ma... soccer so fun (except when victor is playing (no offence)) :) hmm... and you very friendly too... siao siao.... at first i dont know you then you keep on telling rebecca that you wanna know me -.-'' hmm... k la... say till here.... cya!
Lou Wee Kiat
woo... yoyo... know you since PRIMARY 1!!!! siao siao leh... same class from primary 1 till primary 6... then sec 1 till now is schmates.. :) tmd.... why you so tall de? you bhs the tallest leh.... tmd... hmm nvm la... well... alot of ppl say you shuai ge leh.... hmm... well.. try to interract with us more la.... talk more... then we all can know more bout you... well... wish you all the best with you and your crush!! okay cya!!
Koh Bing Xiong
wahaha... we two xiong tong leh.. :P hmm... known you since primary 3 also hor? hmm... remember thast time we have a querrel? i forgot about wat le... then we hate each other for bout 1 year right? LOL... whahaa funny leh... must be we the bears fight for superior ranking over another... lol... till we decided that we will rule xiong tong together... lol... hmm... you comp pro also... hmm... study pro also ... siao siao... hmm... okay. end here cya!
Soh Hui Jie
yoyo hui jie!! hmm... you this soccer expert!!! tmd... pro till like that.... high ball also shoot.... hmm nvm la... at least nowadays i can defend high ball le.... so can snatch from you :P.... hmm.. founder of Bu hao siao!!!! without you there wont be bu hao siao!!! we all own it to you!!! wahha... still remeber last time the soccer.... the high ball flying then you know i behide you... then you right before shoot you say si gui xiong!!! then you miss the ball and i hit it off... wahahaha... gao xiao leh... hmm... an active guy also... and look like rebecca brother... LOL... wahaha okok la... talk till here... buh bye!
Teo Nan Shun
yoyo fatso!!!lol siao siao... bhs fattest man... waaahaha.. 200 pound guy!! hmm... ncc pro... shout so loud... :) hmm.. we primary 1 you in chinese period come my class de right? hmm... you that time aready fat le.. lol.. hmm..still remember that time we play in the field there? wahah so fun leh.. we all run like siao like that... wahaha... hmm... shoik hor? ncc got rank le... okay la... till here... buh bye!
kungfu panda! muahaha. hey hey, jia you for wooing the gurl ur wooing hor. lol. ps lah, bu xiao xing ting dao de. woo dao le muz tell me hor lol.
Thevanand
yo charcole!!! lol jkjk...hmm... the darkest guy in bhs... wahaha... hmm soccer pro... hmm wanna take defending side of bhs soccer team isit? haha... good ... then you side by side with me :) bla... if i talk alot for all ppl i would be typing like siao!!! hmm.. k la... say till here.... and remember... be dark always :) cya!
Victor
yoyo... hmm.. lets see... hmm... well.. you in soccer you need to train on your accuracy... if not.... tons of ppl will get hurt oin every soccer training/match... lol jkjk no offence... hmm... i not critising you la... but... try to control your temper... i know you think most ppl in bhs see you not happy... but there is still a few that still cares... and try to be more friendly.... i know you see your dad not happy cause of his AP... then.. since you see him not happy till like this... why did you still follow his steps? you told us that he is a failure and you dont wanna follow him right? belive in yourself la... you can do it de... dont let anyone stop you.... trust yourself... and do it!!! okay end here... cya!~~
Yo rich guy to be. read rich dad poor dad ah. HUAT ah! jackie chan.
Goh Cheng Hao
yo apple!! hmm.. this guy... bhs only fruit.. so must cherish.... heard before a apple a day kicks the doctor away? hmm so lets eat cheng hao the apple and we are immue to doctors .. lol...hmm... soccer not bad... you also must try control your temper... dont keep on ramping... pain one leh... you think i defender is let you ramp one meh... then i have ncc de leh... then i go there siao liao... hmm nvm la... just strive!! cya!!
Mei
Yea, the whole 10+ bunch of you. and yes, i gotta admit i never believe in this kinda mei and kor kinda stuff. but then u all ask me be kor i cannot be like asshole say no ma. lol. sorry didnt managed to write bout all of you la. no time for it.
Maggie
yoyo.. you my first mei leh :) hmm... we know each other at christmas time de right? haha... we go barber Q then you join us .. wahah.. then you want me to be your gor cause you say i look abit like you... cause our skin colour is both tanned and we both is late late of year then born de... :).. then our face also same... no oil.. no pimples... lol.. bhb sia... haah... no offence... hmm.. to say the truth.... you is chio bu leh... siao siao... then cute cute de.. hmm... sporty gal.. hmm...yea and you have baby face.. lol... hmm.... you remember the time we go christmasd the shalay? wahaha... so fun.. can still remember... then after that we keep on going to eat and go outings together.. now lesser le :(... hmm nvm la... you stil my dear mei :) okay.. end here... cya!!
muahaha, STOP GETTING SACKED LA. i wonder how many times u gonna get sacked for being late. you useless bummy. thanks for coming for my last supper hor lol. and good luck for finding and finding jobs.
Ng Shao Ying Aka Kelly
yoyoyoyo!!! shao ying... wahha... you my 2nd mei... hmm... at first ew dont know each other de hor?... then i ask i think is jasmine.... then got your email add... then we chat chat chat until know each other.. lol.... must thanks you leh... cause if i dont know you hor.. i wont know winna they all le... so thanks :)... hmm... you really is chio leh... how come you dont belive de -.-''.... hmm... then you cute cute de... then hair so solid... lol... hmm... nv really see you play vb... maybe next time have time will see de.... hmm.. and thanks for trusting me... thanks for telling me your secrets... reaslly thanks :)... hmm hope you and him can be together ( you know who i mean )... dont worry.. all your secrets will be safe with me... my mouth is shut :) hmm... dont think too much bout vb match le la.... just do your best and all would be fine.. you did your best.. even lost... you dont have to regret... you aready did your best.... and you should be happy... cause you is representing the sch... just remember this.... no matter wad u do... gor will always support you!!!! farewell!~
Shenny
yoyo... haha... you always sir de ya de... lol...hmm... you my 3rd mei... hmmm.... quite a good gal... live beside benjamin block.. lol... when go ben hse can see thru... -.-''.. wahahahaha... hmm... thanks for telling me your secrets too... dont grive too much on vb le.... just do your best can le.... wahaha hmm quite chio... the only gal in the 6vb tt nv wear spects... lol hmm... lets see... just do your best in whatever you do can le!!!! may you find a guy that you can love... will end here... bye!! also remember.... rawk on in vb!!!!
Deidrea Tan Zhong Lin
yoyo... wahahaha you this siao gao!!! everytime make fun of me... you good... later i kill you then you know... lol jkjk... hmm... you dont too siao leh.... later siao gao come out... earth chan le... hmm... thanks alot... thanks for telling me your secrets... thanks for trusting me so much... :) hmm... donno why... everytime see your face will laugh de... then now pro... lion hair.... wahahahahaha when i saw u cut hair... at first nv really notice... then when remember u cut hair... i go see... then i almost laugh like siao.... like lion!!! wahaha... but must maintain... later laugh too much ppl thought i siao gao... -.-... and must stay cool :P wahaha... hmm... ok la just stay happy.... tmd... dont always be like ghost like that... always dissapear then appear on another place like that de..... lol... wahaha... wahaha hows your rubberband? lol... (know what i mean hor? ) wahaha... now better le... at first i dont really talk to you.... now at least can talk like normal le... i cant be too shy... later job interview i die.... all cannot say... boss straight away say... NEXT!!! wahaha jjkjk...hmm... and dont ever pull off my shoes again!!!! later i take off yours then you know... wahahaha... hmm hmm and thanks for always giving me a helping hand whenever im sad.... thanks alot... dont think so much about other things le la.... just stay happy..... ok??? just remember this.... YOU ARE A SIAO GAO!! wahahaha jjjkjkjkjk.... lol... hmm... wil end here.... just stay happy in everything u do... and remember this..... kor will always support you in whateverthing u do!!!!! okay... bye!! farewell!!!
keep getting wooed in starhub? lol. all the best working there hor. and dont be too sad bout raihan's death. I'm sure he found his place in heaven. and update me bout starhub hor, ruiqi or the other guy managed to get ur heart? lol.
Frequent Chatters! YUP! peeps who keep me company when im bored on msn. I'm sorry i cant put up all of you guys because, no time la. its already 11.49pm as im writing this part. So i'll just put up the peeps i chat the most with.
(I'll continue this part and the part on TW some other time, 've put the pics up already thou)
Simin
I tot I saw a puddy tat. I did! I did saw a puddy tat! lol. you ah, gotta admit you are pretty much the best person to tease. lol. Every once in awhile, I would look at my HP and think what should I do, and sometimes, i decides to msg u and bully u. muahaha. Just need to say hello meat bun and then all hell break loose! you ah, study for o levels like insane like that, then still tell me u think ur not prepared. Anyway, you will always be tiny little meat bun. Oh well, we'll meet again after 2 years. lol. I think u will still look like a meat bun during then la.
Eunice Ong Hui Hui Celestine
hey double name! this is lim gui xiong zhou jie lun. lol. too bad cant celebrate your birthday for u. you ah, muz take care of your left hand leh, and avoid sitting on a bike anymore le la.
Since NS die 5 ppl this year, maybe i go in be the 6th i also duno. so im gonna write this thank you speech, if i die, it will be my thank you speech. at least i become ghost bear i still can happy thinking that i have thanked my friends. TMD better than i suddenly die then i need to talk to u all thru your dreams then u all wake up thinking its fake and i have to go in again, slap u and say its effin real. Or maybe, to talk to u in dreams, i have to be a high level ghost, need train be higher level first, and then need alot of mana. Or in real life term, it means i need to get permit from chuck norris.
Enough of bullshits, i'll be posting up what i posted few years back, and yes, u are are still my friends even after so long. lol. the italic paragraph is what i juz added in. And yup, i've included my newer friends too. HAVE A LOOK!
oh and sorry bout typo, need to type in a rush so wont borther bout editing those.
Yup, got a couple of songs up to suit the atmosphere. Play the songs while reading. [:
Best Friends
HUANG WEI MINGyo wei ming... we know each other since primary 3 le... till now we still were the best of friends :).. well.. i still remember the old times we had together you know? remember that time when i was living at my old house there... then your hse was quite far from mine.. then i go your house must walk quite long... then we always go each other hse de.. then everytime go your house play game... i still remember when we primary 5 that time.. we called samuel they all then play all childish games... games like ... we act as some kinda heros then 1 person be evil guy... then gotta kill him LOL... wahaha... then still have kum lan 2... we create all stupid stupid things... lol... then you everytime i wanna use your comp you wont let me play... until i beg like siao then you give -.-''.. wahaha now nvm le.. i have own comp.. even better de :P... wahaha... still remember when we pri 5 that time... everytime before sch.. i go your hse copy your hw.. lol.. then yan ping... samuel... they all would come.. wahha..thrn chen wee... lol always kana bully by us... lock him outside... then he wanna come in.. then became siao gao throw shoes inside your hse... LOL... just so funny... then we at there keep on laughing..then he siao siao go home... wahaha we so bad :P... then now... we have the socer le... it started with we playing blindcat.... remember? that time... we were playing with cheeleng.. yan ping... chen wee... me... you... samuel.. then sometimes that salivar king :)... then we keep on telling ppl to come.. then change blindcat to BOOM!!! then you remember... we sabo yan ping to be catcher then he not happy then go home... then since then.. he dont wanna play with us le... tmd... then we call more ppl join and play..... then donno why.. change to badmiton le... the i that time dont really know how to play.. you all bully me sia...tmd.. nvm.. at least i have improve when playing... then hor.. we change back to BOOM.. then sec 1... me and sam call our sec 2 friends... nan shun etc etc... then later on.. vincent and eric.. then we always play until 10.. then go home... after that.. 10 30... then 11... then 11 30... now leh.. siao liao... about 12 30AM to 1 Am then go home... we always stay and chat chat chat... just so rox... then we talk about everything.. about the game we play... the things we do... counterstrike... war craft... wahaha... then still discuss about stranegy... lol... just rox!.. then ... i everytime would go and see the moon de... then you would accoumpany me..thanks for everythine leh... then when im sad and down.. you would always console me... then your face so innocent..... so.. guilty-free... then when i look at your face.. i would have some kind of feeling that you were there supporting me... thanks for everything... you rox!! hope our friendship can last FOREVER!!! ohyea... and thanks for those lots of times of the drinks you offered me!! woo you are great buddy!! oh.. and your soccer skilles have improved alot!!! keep it up!!! belive in yourself!! and remember... we are the red guards lol :)
EH PUK QU LA WM. tian yuan i write yours so long le u still expect i will wite more? actually yes la i will lol. YOU AH! WALAO NOW GO GYM BUY CLOTHES AND WAN MAKE FACE HOR. walao love changed you. lol. but anyway, thanks for teaching me piano ah. teach until now my piano skills better than yours. PWNED. lol. aiya, got alot to say but duno what to say leh. jia you for your FYP hor, next year your turn go in botak le lol.
SAMUEL CHONG YONG DEyoyoyo!!! sammy chong!! woo... me.. you and wei ming... we three the 3 elites sia.... know each other since primary 3... but then that time we not that close... we became close when we were primary 5 after our daily routin of going wm home... lol... then we always play games together... play like siao... then we that time kids ma.. so nvm la.. play kiddo things also nvm.. cause we still kiddos ma... then play play play... wahaha... shoik leh... then invent things... then all tag then bully chen wee... wahaha ... cant blame la.. his face have 2 words qianbian!! wahaha... then who ask hinm to always act cute then voice like gal like that... yea... and then we also play boom etc together de... then badmiton... tmd.. you play so good.. i still noob .... tmd... nvm la... my face that time nerd nerd de... then like very easy to bully de hor??? -.- hmm nvm la.. who ask you is my best friend :) yea.. then you create the bu hao siao gang... wahaha you is leader leh... siao siao... but you dont wanna be.. so now is replublic of bu hao siao :P... wahaha... not bad... we start with 14 ppl.. then expand expand expand... woo!! oh yea... we also after the soccer training we would stay at the play grund there... then relax.. then have cool breeze... woo!! then can see the moon also :).. thanks for helping my out when im in trouble... really thanks alot... you rox toO!! woo!! okay la... last year.. exam we tied leh... both got rank 15... lol then no rank 16... lol... nvm.. this time i gonna win you!! you just watch out :P... wahaha you have tution teacher so wad... i have my brains... and my confidence.. wahha i can win you de!!! you just see :) okay... say till here le ba.. cya... bye!! haha... and your soccer not bad also... try to belive in yourself more and have self-motivation!!! okay end here... tata cya!!
WTF? i cant believe i said those stuff. your badmiton better than me? SINCE WHEN? WTF??? i muz have been drunk or something when i wrote what i wrote last time lol. but thanks for organising the supper thingy yesterday, appreciated that.
YeO WeN QiNyoyo.. wow... know you since sec 1 till now.. lol when i first saw you hor.. thought you is like gangster like that leh... then i dont really talk to you.. cause you like always wanna get trouble de... tmd... then hor... slowly we get along well... then i realise that i see a wrong him... he int gangster... a SIAO GAO!!! lol jkjk...not bad la... at first we only like normal friends like that only... then.. we call you to play with us the boom and since then our friendship bond deepens :)
well... you always tell me about christian thingy de... thou i dont really understand.. but ok la.. can understand some.. well.. since you became christian... you become a better person le... nice job.. :) then you always go with wei ming go play warcraft and counterstrike... dont play so much la... try to save more money then can buy things you want ma.. now the economy not good.. so must cut down on your lan le.. well.. i know some ppl always bully you la.. say you is wei ming dog etc... dont care them la.. be what you want :).. and thanks for being with me and see the moon together... thanks alot... and thanks for everytime when i need someone to accumpany me.. you would always be there... really thanks :) well.. your character actually is quite good de la... i sure wei ming also see this within you... thats why he also so close to you... well.. some ppl still think you still a kid... so you must prove to them you have grow up le... remember... when you do a bad deed, that would remain in other ppl heart forever... and the only way to remove it is by doing more good deeds... do at least 5 to cover up for that 1 and another 5 to show them you are good... just do this and you would be will respected by all :) okay la.. i'll stop here le... bao zhong !! oh yea... your soccer skills.... siao siao... the best sia... can do those things so good... i so jealous... and remember... we are the red guards :)
Bu Hao Siao - haha .. dont play play leh.. this gang have 19 members le.. and now still slowly recruiting ppl to join this lame gang.. well... bhs.. thanks alot... thats for all your help.. you made me feel like i have lots of friends around me ... really thanks :)DAH! too bad we got to lay off most of them and leave only the 7 of us. lol. but still, perfect childhood memories! too bad now we all diff sch and all, den dont get to hang out that much le. but still, can all of us gather once or twice a month still ok la. but aiya, next those those chalets i duno my ns time slot can allow ma lo.
Joel SngHey dude! ur not n my first list cos back then ur stll not in bhs yet. lol. but really wanna thank you for acc me go hosptal when my jaws cant close thanks to bloody dentist. althou partly is wan to skp lesson la, but still. lol. Ur known as the frendster king. u know what we mean ba lol. Take care a hor, when i come out of NS is your turn go in le. muahaha.
Eric khooyoyo!! hmm.. know you since sec 1 too.. tmd.. you this joker... everytime joke joke joke.. like siao gao like that... then everytime say me siao gao -.-... hmm nvm la.. i dont really care.. just dont overdo it... well.. your soccer is great... can shoot very far... wonder on your accuracy? hmm... and how bout your toliet shotting skills? lol :P... hmm....this guy is good la.. quite delicated to the gal he love also... hmm just belive in yourself la... you made a mistake of not cherishing her enough when you were her stead... now its not too late to make changes... prove to her that you care... prove to her that she would not regret being with you again... just suceed in this and her heart is half of yours... the other half can only be achived when you is willing to give up everything just for her... and make sure you mean it!! the rest... you can just find out wad she like then go buy for her la... then all that remains was for her to realise your true worth :)... till you make your mark... hang on buddy!! cya!!
walao u recently go where? we go buy stuff u nv come, we go watch movie u never come, yesterday the last supper u never fucking come! WTF? fuck u la eric lol. this sunday i come out cos public holiday they celebrating lol, u better come hor. anyway, MUAHAHAHA see the girl i wrote bout last time, so damn funny la. now ur still effing emo la -.-
Vincent Chew Wei Liangyo!! vincent ...hmm.. know you since sec 1 also..quite a nice guy... soccer best goal keeper....but he change to midfiled le :( well.. our defence gonna sucks without you.... hmm nvm la... have dave and other pro defenders.... should have no problem de la... the problem is... my defence lan leh... how? hmm k la.. change topic.... hmm.. so hoes your lou han in your home? tmd... so many at home... like lou han shop like that... even in toliet also have -.-'' .... hmm.. you bhs soccer team captain leh... dont siao siao....then ncc future USM lol... unit shortest man... well.. just kick asari aside can le.. lol.. well... congras on being able to win jemaine heart... wish you two last forever :)... well.. and thanks for cheering me up whenever im down... will end here... cya!!
Benjamin Yap
yoyoz!! know you when i sec 2 in june that time right? haha... you pro leh... a comp pro... everytime when my computer is spoil you will come to my rescue!! thanks alot for that! :) and your character quite good also... an indoor person... you should participate more in sports ma... soccer so fun (except when victor is playing (no offence)) :) hmm... and you very friendly too... siao siao.... at first i dont know you then you keep on telling rebecca that you wanna know me -.-'' hmm... k la... say till here.... cya!
Lou Wee Kiatwoo... yoyo... know you since PRIMARY 1!!!! siao siao leh... same class from primary 1 till primary 6... then sec 1 till now is schmates.. :) tmd.... why you so tall de? you bhs the tallest leh.... tmd... hmm nvm la... well... alot of ppl say you shuai ge leh.... hmm... well.. try to interract with us more la.... talk more... then we all can know more bout you... well... wish you all the best with you and your crush!! okay cya!!
Koh Bing Xiong
wahaha... we two xiong tong leh.. :P hmm... known you since primary 3 also hor? hmm... remember thast time we have a querrel? i forgot about wat le... then we hate each other for bout 1 year right? LOL... whahaa funny leh... must be we the bears fight for superior ranking over another... lol... till we decided that we will rule xiong tong together... lol... hmm... you comp pro also... hmm... study pro also ... siao siao... hmm... okay. end here cya!
Soh Hui Jieyoyo hui jie!! hmm... you this soccer expert!!! tmd... pro till like that.... high ball also shoot.... hmm nvm la... at least nowadays i can defend high ball le.... so can snatch from you :P.... hmm.. founder of Bu hao siao!!!! without you there wont be bu hao siao!!! we all own it to you!!! wahha... still remeber last time the soccer.... the high ball flying then you know i behide you... then you right before shoot you say si gui xiong!!! then you miss the ball and i hit it off... wahahaha... gao xiao leh... hmm... an active guy also... and look like rebecca brother... LOL... wahaha okok la... talk till here... buh bye!
Teo Nan Shunyoyo fatso!!!lol siao siao... bhs fattest man... waaahaha.. 200 pound guy!! hmm... ncc pro... shout so loud... :) hmm.. we primary 1 you in chinese period come my class de right? hmm... you that time aready fat le.. lol.. hmm..still remember that time we play in the field there? wahah so fun leh.. we all run like siao like that... wahaha... hmm... shoik hor? ncc got rank le... okay la... till here... buh bye!
kungfu panda! muahaha. hey hey, jia you for wooing the gurl ur wooing hor. lol. ps lah, bu xiao xing ting dao de. woo dao le muz tell me hor lol.
Thevanandyo charcole!!! lol jkjk...hmm... the darkest guy in bhs... wahaha... hmm soccer pro... hmm wanna take defending side of bhs soccer team isit? haha... good ... then you side by side with me :) bla... if i talk alot for all ppl i would be typing like siao!!! hmm.. k la... say till here.... and remember... be dark always :) cya!
Victoryoyo... hmm.. lets see... hmm... well.. you in soccer you need to train on your accuracy... if not.... tons of ppl will get hurt oin every soccer training/match... lol jkjk no offence... hmm... i not critising you la... but... try to control your temper... i know you think most ppl in bhs see you not happy... but there is still a few that still cares... and try to be more friendly.... i know you see your dad not happy cause of his AP... then.. since you see him not happy till like this... why did you still follow his steps? you told us that he is a failure and you dont wanna follow him right? belive in yourself la... you can do it de... dont let anyone stop you.... trust yourself... and do it!!! okay end here... cya!~~
Yo rich guy to be. read rich dad poor dad ah. HUAT ah! jackie chan.
Goh Cheng Haoyo apple!! hmm.. this guy... bhs only fruit.. so must cherish.... heard before a apple a day kicks the doctor away? hmm so lets eat cheng hao the apple and we are immue to doctors .. lol...hmm... soccer not bad... you also must try control your temper... dont keep on ramping... pain one leh... you think i defender is let you ramp one meh... then i have ncc de leh... then i go there siao liao... hmm nvm la... just strive!! cya!!
Mei
Yea, the whole 10+ bunch of you. and yes, i gotta admit i never believe in this kinda mei and kor kinda stuff. but then u all ask me be kor i cannot be like asshole say no ma. lol. sorry didnt managed to write bout all of you la. no time for it.
Maggieyoyo.. you my first mei leh :) hmm... we know each other at christmas time de right? haha... we go barber Q then you join us .. wahah.. then you want me to be your gor cause you say i look abit like you... cause our skin colour is both tanned and we both is late late of year then born de... :).. then our face also same... no oil.. no pimples... lol.. bhb sia... haah... no offence... hmm.. to say the truth.... you is chio bu leh... siao siao... then cute cute de.. hmm... sporty gal.. hmm...yea and you have baby face.. lol... hmm.... you remember the time we go christmasd the shalay? wahaha... so fun.. can still remember... then after that we keep on going to eat and go outings together.. now lesser le :(... hmm nvm la... you stil my dear mei :) okay.. end here... cya!!
muahaha, STOP GETTING SACKED LA. i wonder how many times u gonna get sacked for being late. you useless bummy. thanks for coming for my last supper hor lol. and good luck for finding and finding jobs.
Ng Shao Ying Aka Kelly
yoyoyoyo!!! shao ying... wahha... you my 2nd mei... hmm... at first ew dont know each other de hor?... then i ask i think is jasmine.... then got your email add... then we chat chat chat until know each other.. lol.... must thanks you leh... cause if i dont know you hor.. i wont know winna they all le... so thanks :)... hmm... you really is chio leh... how come you dont belive de -.-''.... hmm... then you cute cute de... then hair so solid... lol... hmm... nv really see you play vb... maybe next time have time will see de.... hmm.. and thanks for trusting me... thanks for telling me your secrets... reaslly thanks :)... hmm hope you and him can be together ( you know who i mean )... dont worry.. all your secrets will be safe with me... my mouth is shut :) hmm... dont think too much bout vb match le la.... just do your best and all would be fine.. you did your best.. even lost... you dont have to regret... you aready did your best.... and you should be happy... cause you is representing the sch... just remember this.... no matter wad u do... gor will always support you!!!! farewell!~
Shenny
yoyo... haha... you always sir de ya de... lol...hmm... you my 3rd mei... hmmm.... quite a good gal... live beside benjamin block.. lol... when go ben hse can see thru... -.-''.. wahahahaha... hmm... thanks for telling me your secrets too... dont grive too much on vb le.... just do your best can le.... wahaha hmm quite chio... the only gal in the 6vb tt nv wear spects... lol hmm... lets see... just do your best in whatever you do can le!!!! may you find a guy that you can love... will end here... bye!! also remember.... rawk on in vb!!!!
Deidrea Tan Zhong Linyoyo... wahahaha you this siao gao!!! everytime make fun of me... you good... later i kill you then you know... lol jkjk... hmm... you dont too siao leh.... later siao gao come out... earth chan le... hmm... thanks alot... thanks for telling me your secrets... thanks for trusting me so much... :) hmm... donno why... everytime see your face will laugh de... then now pro... lion hair.... wahahahahaha when i saw u cut hair... at first nv really notice... then when remember u cut hair... i go see... then i almost laugh like siao.... like lion!!! wahaha... but must maintain... later laugh too much ppl thought i siao gao... -.-... and must stay cool :P wahaha... hmm... ok la just stay happy.... tmd... dont always be like ghost like that... always dissapear then appear on another place like that de..... lol... wahaha... wahaha hows your rubberband? lol... (know what i mean hor? ) wahaha... now better le... at first i dont really talk to you.... now at least can talk like normal le... i cant be too shy... later job interview i die.... all cannot say... boss straight away say... NEXT!!! wahaha jjkjk...hmm... and dont ever pull off my shoes again!!!! later i take off yours then you know... wahahaha... hmm hmm and thanks for always giving me a helping hand whenever im sad.... thanks alot... dont think so much about other things le la.... just stay happy..... ok??? just remember this.... YOU ARE A SIAO GAO!! wahahaha jjjkjkjkjk.... lol... hmm... wil end here.... just stay happy in everything u do... and remember this..... kor will always support you in whateverthing u do!!!!! okay... bye!! farewell!!!
keep getting wooed in starhub? lol. all the best working there hor. and dont be too sad bout raihan's death. I'm sure he found his place in heaven. and update me bout starhub hor, ruiqi or the other guy managed to get ur heart? lol.
Frequent Chatters! YUP! peeps who keep me company when im bored on msn. I'm sorry i cant put up all of you guys because, no time la. its already 11.49pm as im writing this part. So i'll just put up the peeps i chat the most with.
(I'll continue this part and the part on TW some other time, 've put the pics up already thou)
SiminI tot I saw a puddy tat. I did! I did saw a puddy tat! lol. you ah, gotta admit you are pretty much the best person to tease. lol. Every once in awhile, I would look at my HP and think what should I do, and sometimes, i decides to msg u and bully u. muahaha. Just need to say hello meat bun and then all hell break loose! you ah, study for o levels like insane like that, then still tell me u think ur not prepared. Anyway, you will always be tiny little meat bun. Oh well, we'll meet again after 2 years. lol. I think u will still look like a meat bun during then la.
Eunice Ong Hui Hui Celestinehey double name! this is lim gui xiong zhou jie lun. lol. too bad cant celebrate your birthday for u. you ah, muz take care of your left hand leh, and avoid sitting on a bike anymore le la.
i know that i have loved you ... at 6:38 PM
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fate crumbled all around 0 identities
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
He who can do this has the whole world with him.
I often went fishing during the summer. Personally I am very fond of strawberries and cream, but i have found that for some strange reason, fish prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn't think about what i wanted. I thought about what they wanted. I didn't bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm in front of the fish and said: "Wouldn't you like to have that?"
Why not use the same common sense when fishing for people?
Why talk about what we want? That is childish. Absurd. Of course, you are interested in what you want. You are eternally interested in it. But no one else is. The rest of us are like you; we are interested in what we want.
So the only way on earth to influence other people is to talk about what they want and show them how to get it.
Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don't want your children to smoke, don't preach at them, and don't talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from makng the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
Tomorrow you may want to persuade somebody to do something. Before you speak, pause and ask yourself: "How can I make this person want to do it?"
That question will stop us from rushing into a situation heedlessly, with a futile chatter about our desires.
Here is one of the best bits of advice ever given about the fine art of human relationships. "If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own."
That is so good, I want to repeat it: "If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own."
That is so simple, so obvious, that anyone ought to see the truth of it at a glance; yet 90% of the people on this earth ignore it 90% of the time.
Remember: "First, arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way."
--> Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People
Why not use the same common sense when fishing for people?
Why talk about what we want? That is childish. Absurd. Of course, you are interested in what you want. You are eternally interested in it. But no one else is. The rest of us are like you; we are interested in what we want.
So the only way on earth to influence other people is to talk about what they want and show them how to get it.
Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don't want your children to smoke, don't preach at them, and don't talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from makng the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
Tomorrow you may want to persuade somebody to do something. Before you speak, pause and ask yourself: "How can I make this person want to do it?"
That question will stop us from rushing into a situation heedlessly, with a futile chatter about our desires.
Here is one of the best bits of advice ever given about the fine art of human relationships. "If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own."
That is so good, I want to repeat it: "If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own."
That is so simple, so obvious, that anyone ought to see the truth of it at a glance; yet 90% of the people on this earth ignore it 90% of the time.
Remember: "First, arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way."
--> Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People
i know that i have loved you ... at 1:55 AM
fate crumbled all around 0 identities
fate crumbled all around 0 identities
Give honest, sincere appreciation.
What do you want? Not many things, but the few things that you do wish, you crave with an insistence that will not be denied. Some of the things most people want include:
1. Health and the preservation of life.
2. Food.
3. Sleep.
4. Money and the things money will buy.
5. Life in the hereafter.
6. Sexual gratification.
7. The well-being of our children.
8. A feeling of importance.
Almost all these wants are usually gratified - all except one. But there is one longing - almost as deep, almost as imperious, as the desire for food or sleep - which is seldom gratified. It is what Freud calls " the desire to be great" and what Dewey calls the "desire to be important".
Lincoln once began a letter saying: "Everybody likes a compliment." William James said: "The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated." He didn't speak, mind you, of the "wish" or "desire" or "longing" to be appreciated. He said the "craving" to be appreciated.
Here is a gnawing and unflatering human hunger, and the rare individual who honestly satisfies this heart hunger will hold people in the palm of his or her hand.
This desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief distinguishing difference between mankind and the animals. To illustrate: When I was a farm boy, my father bred hogs and cattle. We used to exhibit our hogs and cattle at the country fairs throughout the middlewest. We won first prizes by the score. My father pinned his blue ribbon on a sheet of white muslin. He would hold one end while i hold the other while he exhibit the blue ribbons.
The hogs didn't care about the ribbons they had won. But Father did. These prizes give him a feeling of importance.
If our ancestors hadn't had this flaming urge for a feeling of importance, civilization would have been impossible. Without it, we should have been just about like animals.
This desire makes you want to wear the latest styles, drive the latest cars, and talk about your brilliant achievements.
I shall pass this way but once; and good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human beings, let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him.
Let's memorise this phrase. Let's try to figure out the other person's good points. Then forget flattery. Give honest, sincere appreciation. Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise," and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime - repeat them years after you have forgotten them.
1. Health and the preservation of life.
2. Food.
3. Sleep.
4. Money and the things money will buy.
5. Life in the hereafter.
6. Sexual gratification.
7. The well-being of our children.
8. A feeling of importance.
Almost all these wants are usually gratified - all except one. But there is one longing - almost as deep, almost as imperious, as the desire for food or sleep - which is seldom gratified. It is what Freud calls " the desire to be great" and what Dewey calls the "desire to be important".
Lincoln once began a letter saying: "Everybody likes a compliment." William James said: "The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated." He didn't speak, mind you, of the "wish" or "desire" or "longing" to be appreciated. He said the "craving" to be appreciated.
Here is a gnawing and unflatering human hunger, and the rare individual who honestly satisfies this heart hunger will hold people in the palm of his or her hand.
This desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief distinguishing difference between mankind and the animals. To illustrate: When I was a farm boy, my father bred hogs and cattle. We used to exhibit our hogs and cattle at the country fairs throughout the middlewest. We won first prizes by the score. My father pinned his blue ribbon on a sheet of white muslin. He would hold one end while i hold the other while he exhibit the blue ribbons.
The hogs didn't care about the ribbons they had won. But Father did. These prizes give him a feeling of importance.
If our ancestors hadn't had this flaming urge for a feeling of importance, civilization would have been impossible. Without it, we should have been just about like animals.
This desire makes you want to wear the latest styles, drive the latest cars, and talk about your brilliant achievements.
I shall pass this way but once; and good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human beings, let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him.
Let's memorise this phrase. Let's try to figure out the other person's good points. Then forget flattery. Give honest, sincere appreciation. Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise," and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime - repeat them years after you have forgotten them.
i know that i have loved you ... at 12:20 AM
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fate crumbled all around 0 identities
Friday, March 14, 2008
To know all is to forgive all
Father Forgets
W. Livingston Larned
Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead. I have stolen into your bedroom alone. Just a few minutes alone, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave of remorse swept over me. Guiltily i came into your bedside.
There are things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning your shoes. I called out angrily when you threw some of your things on the floor.
As breakfast i found fault too. You spilled things. You gluped down your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, "Goodbye Daddy!" and i frowned, and said in reply, "Hold your shoulders back!"
Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As i came up my road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were holes in your stockings. I humiliated you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to the house. Stockings are expensive - and if you had to buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son, from a father!
Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? When I glanced up over my paper, impatient at the interruption , you hasitated at the door. " What is it you want?" I snapped.
You said nothing, But ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small arms tightened with and affection that God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect could not wither. And the you were gone, pattering up the stairs.
Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding - this was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that i did not love you; it was that i expect too much of a youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years.
And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impluse to rush in and kiss me good night. Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have come to your bedside in the darkness, and i have knelt there, ashamed!
It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told you during your waking hours. But tomorrow i will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you suffer, and laugh when you laugh. I will bite my tongue when impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: " He is nothing but a boy - a little boy!"
I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as i see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby. Yesterday you were in your mother's arm, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.
Instead of comdemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. "To know all is to forgive all."
As Dr. Johnson said: "God himself, does not propose to judge man until the end of his days."
Why should you and I?
W. Livingston Larned
Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead. I have stolen into your bedroom alone. Just a few minutes alone, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave of remorse swept over me. Guiltily i came into your bedside.
There are things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning your shoes. I called out angrily when you threw some of your things on the floor.
As breakfast i found fault too. You spilled things. You gluped down your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, "Goodbye Daddy!" and i frowned, and said in reply, "Hold your shoulders back!"
Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As i came up my road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were holes in your stockings. I humiliated you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to the house. Stockings are expensive - and if you had to buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son, from a father!
Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? When I glanced up over my paper, impatient at the interruption , you hasitated at the door. " What is it you want?" I snapped.
You said nothing, But ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small arms tightened with and affection that God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect could not wither. And the you were gone, pattering up the stairs.
Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding - this was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that i did not love you; it was that i expect too much of a youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years.
And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impluse to rush in and kiss me good night. Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have come to your bedside in the darkness, and i have knelt there, ashamed!
It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told you during your waking hours. But tomorrow i will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you suffer, and laugh when you laugh. I will bite my tongue when impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: " He is nothing but a boy - a little boy!"
I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as i see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby. Yesterday you were in your mother's arm, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.
Instead of comdemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. "To know all is to forgive all."
As Dr. Johnson said: "God himself, does not propose to judge man until the end of his days."
Why should you and I?
i know that i have loved you ... at 10:26 PM
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Thursday, March 6, 2008
Do This And You'll Be Welcome Anywhere
Why read this post to find out how to win friends? Why not study the technique of the greatest winner of friends the world has ever known? Who is he? You may meet him tomorrow coming down the street. When you get within ten feet of him, he will begin to wag his tail. If you stop and pat him, he will almost jump out of his skin to show you how much he likes you. And you know that behind this show of affection on his part, there are no ulterior motives: he doesn't want to sell you any real estate, and he doesn't want to marry you.
Did you ever stop to thik that a dog is the only animal that doesn't have to work for a living? a hen have to lay eggs, a cow has to give milk, and a canary has to sing. But a dog makes his living by giving you nothing but love.
Dogs never read a book on psychology, they didn't need to. They know by some divine instinct that you can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people that you can in two years trying to get others interested in you. Let me repeat that. You can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people that you can in two years trying to get others interested in you.
Yet I know and you know people who blunder through life trying to wigwag other people into becoming interested in them.
Of course, it doesn't work. People are not interested in you. They are not interested in me. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon and after dinner.
The New York Telephone Company made a detailed study of telephone conversations to find out which word is the most frequently used. You have guessed it; it is the personal pronoun "I" "I" "I". It was used 3900 times in 500 telephone conversations. "I" "I" "I""I".
When you see a group photograph that you are in, whose picture do you look at first?
If we merely try to impress people and get people interested in us, we will never have many true, sincere friends. Friends, real friends, are not made that way.
It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others. It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring.
--> Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Did you ever stop to thik that a dog is the only animal that doesn't have to work for a living? a hen have to lay eggs, a cow has to give milk, and a canary has to sing. But a dog makes his living by giving you nothing but love.
Dogs never read a book on psychology, they didn't need to. They know by some divine instinct that you can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people that you can in two years trying to get others interested in you. Let me repeat that. You can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people that you can in two years trying to get others interested in you.
Yet I know and you know people who blunder through life trying to wigwag other people into becoming interested in them.
Of course, it doesn't work. People are not interested in you. They are not interested in me. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon and after dinner.
The New York Telephone Company made a detailed study of telephone conversations to find out which word is the most frequently used. You have guessed it; it is the personal pronoun "I" "I" "I". It was used 3900 times in 500 telephone conversations. "I" "I" "I""I".
When you see a group photograph that you are in, whose picture do you look at first?
If we merely try to impress people and get people interested in us, we will never have many true, sincere friends. Friends, real friends, are not made that way.
It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others. It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring.
--> Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People.
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i know that i have loved you ... at 11:38 PM
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How To Win Friends And Influence People?
Every once awhile, i'll be posting paragrahs of things i feel [duh] and wise words from the books i've read. do come back every once awhile to know more. basically, it will be on Character building, Difference between opposite sex, Man-Woman Relationship and financial knowledge. i welcome all of u to discuss with me any of the discussed topics as i do know that im not always right. well, sneak preview!
HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE?
IN A NUTSHELL
Fundamental Techniques In Handling People
-Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
-Give honest and sincere appreciation.
-Arouse in the other person an eager want.
Six Ways To Make People Like You
-Become genuinely interested in the other people
-Smile
-Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language
-Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
-Talk in terms of the other person's interest
-Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
Win People To Your Way Of Thinking
-The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
-Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
-If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
-Begin in a friendly way.
-Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
-Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
-Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
-Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
-Be sympathetic with the other person's idea and desires.
-Appeal to the nobler motives
-Dramatize your ideas
-Throw down a challenge.
--> How To Win Friends And Influence People, Dale Carnegie
HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE?
IN A NUTSHELL
Fundamental Techniques In Handling People
-Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
-Give honest and sincere appreciation.
-Arouse in the other person an eager want.
Six Ways To Make People Like You
-Become genuinely interested in the other people
-Smile
-Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language
-Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
-Talk in terms of the other person's interest
-Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
Win People To Your Way Of Thinking
-The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
-Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
-If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
-Begin in a friendly way.
-Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
-Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
-Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
-Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
-Be sympathetic with the other person's idea and desires.
-Appeal to the nobler motives
-Dramatize your ideas
-Throw down a challenge.
--> How To Win Friends And Influence People, Dale Carnegie
i know that i have loved you ... at 9:59 PM
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INTRODUCTION
hello people. anyway, i created a blog as u can see. pretty obvious. basically, i will be using this blog to note down some notes that i wan to note down. hand to understand? nvm, i simplfy it for u in e following sentence.
BLOODY HELL THIS IS MY BLOG AND I WAN TYPE WAD DEN I TYPE WAD!! RAWR!!
lol. understand le ma? oh btw, im feeling pretty user-friendly, so i've put in some games n the left corner. and my other blog, recipe, which is still under construction. [: since u're here, why not tag abit? [:
BLOODY HELL THIS IS MY BLOG AND I WAN TYPE WAD DEN I TYPE WAD!! RAWR!!
lol. understand le ma? oh btw, im feeling pretty user-friendly, so i've put in some games n the left corner. and my other blog, recipe, which is still under construction. [: since u're here, why not tag abit? [:
i know that i have loved you ... at 5:44 PM
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